Fortunately I am not a soccer Mom, nor do I smoke anymore (Smoke free since 97, enjoying second smoke is a hobby). I am a retired USAF Master Sergeant. I know what acceptable risk is.
That is supposed to impress me?! I also know that parents need to take care of their own damn kids instead of expecting someone else to keep them ALL DAY and cart them around from one school to the next. Either expect something UNEXPECTED to happen by MISTAKE or stay the hell home with the kids you bring into the world. Going to the media only tells me that the mother wasn't interested in ONLY taking care of the child.