I didn't say you were hateful or stupid. Some of your fellow unbelievers are, like this Niedow(sp) creep. He's twisted. But refusal to believe in something greater than yourself is a pretty clear defensive maneuver.
You said atheists tended to be neurotic, stupid et al. As an atheist, I naturally refute anything of the sort. Newdow isn't a nutbar because he's an atheist. He's a nutbar who happens to be an atheist.