I honestly don't think Michael Douglas dislikes Catherine Zeta Jones. He's said he wanted to date her from looking at her, and of course we all go for looks at first because we SEE a person first. But if Douglas didn't enjoy Jones's company he wouldn't just marry her to look at her. I've been out with some stunning women and most of them are boring because they never had to try hard to keep a man's attention. When I didn't call back for a second date (and I ain't rich or great looking) they frequently called me back because they couldn't believe someone didn't want to go out with them again.
Jones's looks help get attention, but if being with her was miserable, Douglas would be on to the next one.