Just because they like to look at attractive men doesn't mean they plan on having sex with them, just like when straight men like looking at attractive women, it doesn't mean they plan on having sex with them.
When I am out with my wife I certainly don't comment that I like to go to a place to look at the attractive women. She wouldn't find that very monogamous.
On your second comment, are you female ? When straight men "like looking at attractive women", it does mean they're at least fantasizing about having sex with them. Similarly the homosexuals and "attractive men".
Ah, another fine example on my part of replying without reading, as in your #29.
I wouldn't comment either, but Mrs. JimRed knows that when I stop looking, it's time to bury me!