So what are you saying? That my friend's families are perverts. Is that you fall back argument. I admit, its hard to argue with. Kinda like the liberal argument that Bush won because he rigged the voting machines. "How do you know he didn't" , they say. Were you there to see it, or not see it. Fractured logic argument. I guess Dick Cheney and Ronald Reagan might have molested their queer children also. Who knows. You don't,, I don't. Maybe my parents molested me. I may not remember. Maybe yours did too. You may not know. How does it feel to know you might have been molested. Boy, you opened up a whole can of worms that I never thought of.
My "argument" is that there is absolutely no way you could know what went on in your friends' home from the time of their birth until this very minute. Nobody can know what really happens in the private lives of other people.
Children come into contact with a lot more people than their parents, no one ever said that parents abuse their kids. In fact it is usually a babysitter, an uncle, a neighbor, not the parents.