Good argument, but still has holes--like the guy who pointed out that you can spot "them" at a young age.
Wouldn't this suggest that the improper socialization had begun to take root?
Abuse and/or gender-confusing relational dynamics can affect someone's sexuality when they're very young...young enough that they may not remember ever being "normal." These same folks would likely stick out of a crowd, no matter what their age.
There is a couple at our church with classis homo-building dynamics: mother runs the show, totally dominating her weak, passive husband and two boys. Husband always looks like a deer in the headlights, like another son thrown into the mix. Those boys aren't getting a shred of their masculinity confirmed by dad. One is early-teens, other is mid-teens. Both are as fruity as they come. Mincing, artsy, delicate. Always surrounded by friendgirls, as these guys always are at a young age: girls love them because they will play the gossipy, fashion-conscious, dramatic games that young girls play.
Good argument, but still has holes--like the guy who pointed out that you can spot "them" at a young age.
Environmental factors effect kids at a very young age, so does, unfortunately, sexual abuse.
Actually, the example of "them" who can be spotted at a young age, are those who display Gender-Identity Disorder, gender confusion, or even Sissy-Boy Syndrome(yes, it is actually a real medical syndrome)So I wouldn't count "them" as an example of a hole in my argument.