[Liz]

Let me explain it to you. Any women who has been involved in high-end relationships knows the key to keeping the guy by your side is to keep him on edge.......constantly. He must never, ever know what you are going to do next. Predictability and perfection are lethal to a relationship (one you want to keep).

[bmwcyle]

Double edge sword, there is a window of operation there.

[Max Combined]

'Any women who has been involved in high-end relationships knows the key to keeping the guy by your side is to keep him on edge.......constantly. He must never, ever know what you are going to do next."

That might be true in a romantic dating relationship, it is false in a long term marriage. My wife knows what I am going to do next and I know what she is going to do. We love and trust each other. We are not into playing games.