My husband and i met while we were each in law school, and got married after we had graduated, passed the bar and had jobs. so, theoretically at least, we are equals. i took the mommy track once we had kids and he outearns me by the power of 4 or 5 by now. i took 2 year maternity leaves with each of our three kids and only work part-time. we will celebrate our 20th wedding anniversary this June. Different men want different things from a relationship. Same with women. Generalizing is stupid.
Well said.