Where do you look? Just out of curiosity?
Places where men of character frequent. Church, Republican campaign offices... ;-)
None of the places Dowd goes.
Firing ranges...
Not sure what the source of Maureen's difficulties is. Assuming she does not have one of the usual personal or gynecological problems, she may have unrealistic expectations. "Compatibility" is a little different from looking for an "equal" in some sort of elite power game. She seems to have a very exalted image of herself. I'm sure she's bright but she doesn't strike me as too intelligent. Some people who think that they are very smart are in a defense mechanism mode of deeper low self-esteem. That's certainly true in the northeastern, liberal Ivy League set. A lot of pretensions and hot air - less substance than claimed.
We should pray for her.
As for where she should look - getting out of Manhattan liberal power circles might be the best life-change move.