I couldn't disagree more. WE are there to help THEM, not the other way around. Why should we allow them to make it harder for us to help them? That's ridiculous.
We can only offer help. It's their country not ours. We can't force them to except our help against their will. We are guest there.
When Mount Saint Helen started erupting back in the early eighties. The state wanted everyone to evacuate from the area. One individual refused to leave his little home out in the woods. He died when Saint Helen finally erupted. People will be like that.