"What he was saying was pure idiocy and very judgmental."
If you want to call it idiocy, then don't complain when the temperature of the rhetoric rises.
"Real Christians are loving, patient and kind..."
As when they call others' opinions "idiocy?"
"they do not try to stuff their "opinions" down others throats."
This is a discussion forum. People are allowed to express their opinions here. They are even allowed to express them strongly.
For that matter, rebuking sinners is one of the seven spiritual acts of mercy.
"I saw judgment against her because of decisions she believed to be right for her."
Christianity is not about people judging for themselves what's right "for them." It's about what God has told us is right. Even if you don't believe that, people are allowed to say it so long as the owner of the forum says they are.
"Is your religion the "religion of peace"?
Our Lord told us that he came to bring the sword.
"Women should just shut up and be smacked around in the name of God?"
I'm quite sure no one has said that, and that sort of misrepresentation is what set me off in the first place.
"Get off your high horse and step into the reality of life."
Oh, I think I've been around the block a couple of times.