To: ArGee
"The problem is that marriage is seen as something done to fulfill the person getting married, not something givin as an unreserved gift to the person you are marrying. People divorce because it isn't fun anymore so what did they really do, get married or shack up with a certificate?"
When I married, it was forever...that was the intention and the vow. After 13 years of putting every bit of myself into it, I'm ready to check out. Unless you've lived in this hell, don't judge others that are trying to get out of it.
512 posted on
01/04/2005 9:23:26 PM PST by
codyjacksmom
(Proud, new 1st time grandma as of 11/07/04....now it's payback time!)
To: codyjacksmom
Unless you've lived in this hell, don't judge others that are trying to get out of it. I understand, I've been there........my thoughts and prayers are with you.
518 posted on
01/04/2005 9:30:28 PM PST by
Gabz
To: codyjacksmom
Lots and lots of nutters on this thread. Put them in their place or ignore them. :-)
To: codyjacksmom
When I married, it was forever...that was the intention and the vow. After 13 years of putting every bit of myself into it, I'm ready to check out. Unless you've lived in this hell, don't judge others that are trying to get out of it. If what you describe is accurate (and I'm not doubting you) then you don't fit what I was talking about.
You are the reason divorce is allowed.
Shalom.
801 posted on
01/05/2005 5:44:21 AM PST by
ArGee
(After 517, the abolition of man is complete)
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