[codyjacksmom]

"The problem is that marriage is seen as something done to fulfill the person getting married, not something givin as an unreserved gift to the person you are marrying. People divorce because it isn't fun anymore so what did they really do, get married or shack up with a certificate?"

When I married, it was forever...that was the intention and the vow. After 13 years of putting every bit of myself into it, I'm ready to check out. Unless you've lived in this hell, don't judge others that are trying to get out of it.

[Gabz]

Unless you've lived in this hell, don't judge others that are trying to get out of it.

I understand, I've been there........my thoughts and prayers are with you.

[nopardons]

Lots and lots of nutters on this thread. Put them in their place or ignore them. :-)

[ArGee]

When I married, it was forever...that was the intention and the vow. After 13 years of putting every bit of myself into it, I'm ready to check out. Unless you've lived in this hell, don't judge others that are trying to get out of it.

If what you describe is accurate (and I'm not doubting you) then you don't fit what I was talking about.

You are the reason divorce is allowed.

Shalom.