I know he didn't cheat on me.......he was too busy keeping track of my every move to make sure I didn't cheat on him.
I'm thrilled you don't "think" I need to feel guilty.........I never have felt that way.
Obvously someone who abuses a spouse on a consistent and regular basis isn't a Christian...they don't believe....or is lying if they say they are. In that case:
1Co 7:13 And the woman which hath an husband that believeth not, and if he be pleased to dwell with her, let her not leave him.
Note that the word "pleased" in the greek represents a mutual "please" between husband and wife:
suneudokeo
Thayer Definition:
1) to be pleased together with, to approve together (with others)
2) to be pleased at the same time with, consent, agree to