I understand what you are saying but even in that situation, and we discussed this prior to marriage, seperation was preferrable to divorce for us.
We made our vows, before man and G*d, till death do us part.
We were married by a Justice of the Peace.....
I understand what you are saying, JaJ, but there are exceptions, and saving one's physical life is one of them. When a spouse feels compelled to hide ammunition for the fear of being shot by the other spouse....it is definitely time to get out of Dodge.
OTOH you've met both coolbreeze and me, the idea of us ever seperating has never crossed either of our minds.