Oh, on the bottom of the pile of pamphlets instructing you to offer up the abuse to God, and Christian Martyrdom 101.
The author of the article should remember, "judge not, lest ye be judged yourself"...
Ha! Good one; I like that!
I think my mom, the minister's wife/doormat, has been offering up the abuse to God for 60 years now and I don't see that it's done a bit of good. You're right; the author needs to think a little deeper...