This should be a very interesting year for you and your family.
I cannot imagine what life is like for those poor people who lost 40 or 50 family members, not to mention most of the other people in their village.
Especially when you haven't found the family member yet. That would be the hardest. When the world trade centers were destroyed and now with this, the ones who can't find their loved ones body, pains me. There is no closure for them.