What do I want? For people making judgments about me or giving me advice to at least make a fair analysis of what is actually driving my decision, and it is much more complex than just some misguided affection for animals over people, which is not in anything I have said.
You've posted many reasons to not have children....and top on the list seems to be your horse. BTW, you refered to having a child as a "whim" in that post. I let that one go because I obviously don't have much in common with you....and gave you my best wishes anyway. If that's not enough for you, then that's just too bad.