I don't get that impression. I DO know they WHINE. Two things you can count on when reading Essene Magazine is readers whining about white women and bashing black men, well three things and telling readers to vote democrat (even though the editor didn't expressly SAY it in that fashion). You have to look HARD to find a sentence about Condi Rice but they laud a convicted terrorist murdered like Winnie Mandela. Boggles the mind.
I looked at their website. The lead article about Vivica A Fox mentioned that she "slimmed down" from size 8 to size 4! Weren't black women supposed to have a healthier concept of size?
WHY NOT
hook that hottie
A handsome stranger walks by, and the cat's got your tongue. If flirting flusters you, try this strategy: Signal that you're approachable with a genuine smile. Make eye contact, and let your gaze linger. If he holds your gaze, approach him and introduce yourself. A question or a compliment will break the ice.
(And then you can spend the night with him, pick up HIV, and complain that men don't respect you.)