The message intelligent women should hear is: you are a breeding machine that society has attempted to defeat and sidetrack, with false promises of a life made more worthwhile by intellectual achievement.
What's happening to young people is population control operating on a very personal level. Most "educated" young people cannot afford the lifestyle they have been programmed to desire (apartment or house on the safe/stylish side of town, high-status college degrees, newish cars, ski vacations, blue locale (e.g., SF)) without a second income.
The real winners and survivors in this society are the people who embrace a life of sruggle and probable poverty without the likelihood of high-status frills, who marry poor and are happy about it, and generally don't compete very hard in the race to die with the most "toys".
I have never met anyone who was happy about being poor. I've spent time in "the ghetto" and have never heard anyone even remotely express that sentiment.
The real winners in society are those who, well, win. They compete and win. They succeed at their work, in their family life and intellectually. Naturally, it follows that the losers are those who lose. They either compete (or don't compete) and don't win.