Now that's smart!
(My take (speaking as a former victim of the 'gifted' system-) I've found it is waaaaay better to be 'clever' than 'smart'. I have the scars to prove it.)
'Sorry about your "scars." The really smart woman chooses to marry a really smart man so that they are partners and best friends as well as lovers. Life is never dull for such a couple, and any children from such a wholesome marriage are fortunate indeed.