I'll bet your husband secretly likes it that you take care of yourself. My goal is to lose weight about as much as I can because it's a jungle out there. I'm not sure why some men associate intelligence with ugliness though. I do know that I read in a book that a lot of women would trade intelligence for being beautiful.
"I do know that I read in a book that a lot of women would trade intelligence for being beautiful."
I would too as a woman. But with all the cosmetics, exercise and diet remedies available today, looking decent is achievable.
Now I'll catch it. Just observe:-0