"This is becoming close to unfathomable. My husband and I really want to help out financially, but it's hard to know which aid organization is the best to give to. We were thinking Oxfam America, but I'm willing to entertain suggestions from fellow FReepers as well...I just want my money going to the place that it most useful right now."
Hugh Hewitt likes these guys - World Vision
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