The U.S. should send no aid whatsoever to the Muslim countries nor to India. Let the rich Muslim countries take care of their own - that will leave less money for terrorist activities. Let India's workforce that has taken American jobs step up to the plate.
Given that charity among Islamic peoples are actually quite good, how come the Persian Gulf oil states haven't stepped in with massive financial aid for Indonesia? After all, Indonesia is one of the most important members of OPEC....