Amen. I agree... it's just too divise for this time of year.
I have super-liberal grandparents and a super-liberal aunt on my dad's side of the family. Occasionally, we mix it up over the dinner table, but in the end, if I get uncivil, I apologize and life goes on.
I remember I once called my aunt a socialist right to her face, which she disagreed with because she's pro-family as well as super-liberal. I apologized for being uncivil and we're still on excellent terms. Things just get heated between us from time to time.
So the decision is, will you sit quietly and let your relative rant on about how great HILLARY! is, or will you heatedly debate her point by point? But don't hide in the bathroom, for heaven's sake!