Posted on 12/24/2004 6:06:09 AM PST by KidGlock
Father Of 'Naughty' Kids Sells Their Gifts On eBay
HOUSTON -- A father of three children in the Houston area has gone from playing Santa Claus to playing the Grinch.
The man decided that his children were being naughty instead of nice -- and he's taught them a lesson by auctioning their presents on eBay.
The man, who asked the Houston Chronicle not to reveal his name, decided to sell off the presents because the youngsters had misbehaved. His children are 9, 11 and 15.
His posting on the eBay Web site says, "Bad children get no Nintendo DS. Santa will skip our house this year."
The man is offering to sell three of the wireless video game systems as well as several games.
The bidding was up to $465 as the auction wound down last night.
If your boys don't obey, sell their gifts on eBay Dad is auctioning the items his sons 'want the most'
By ALLAN TURNER
Copyright 2004 Houston Chronicle
'Twas the week before Christmas, and chaos did reign. The kiddies were squabbling. Oh, what a pain! Their language was shocking, their demeanor obscene. But to correct them was useless, you know what I mean?
So to the computer, Dad sprinted so spry. "There's going to be order, or you'll regret it," he cried. Then typing and clicking like wee, tiny elves, he summoned up eBay, determined to sell.
Enough with the poetry.
There's not much laughter today at the home of a Pasadena information technology specialist who has decided to auction off his sons' Christmas presents — and possibly dismantle the family tree — because the youngsters, ages 9, 11 and 15, have been naughty, not nice.
"One thing we teach around this house," said the man, who asked that his name not be revealed, "is that good things happen to good people and bad things happen to bad people."
In a Christmas context, bad people get switches or lumps of coal — or lose the presents they want the most.
"BAD CHILDREN get no Nintendo DS. Santa will skip our house this year," the man announced in his eBay posting to sell three DS systems with PictoChat and Metroid. Also offered were three games for use with the system. "No kidding. Three undeserving boys have crossed the line. Tonight we sat down and showed them what they WILL NOT get for Christmas this year. I'll be taking the tree down tomorrow."
As the auction wound down Thursday night, bidding was up to $465.01 — below the minimum price the man had set. Across the eBay site, 1,552 others were selling Nintendo DS items.
"If you don't buy them, we'll return them to the store," the seller known online as magumbo_2000 reported on the site.
The man would not divulge his reserve price, saying late Thursday that he would probably list the items again.
"These are normally really good kids," he said. But in a single day, he added, the boys fought one another, used vulgar language and gestured obscenely. The family discord has been in progress for about two weeks, said the man, attributing it, in part, to the laxness of previous discipline.
"It seems like we'd say what we were going to do, then bend and back off a little," the father, 41, said. "We'd ground them for a week, but they'd really be grounded for three days; we'd take away video games, but they would still watch television. ... It decayed to the point that groundings don't work, putting them in their room, timeouts don't have any effect."
Fair warning
The man said he and his wife announced the possible punishment in a family meeting earlier this week.
"We told them to think about what kind of brothers they were being, how they were treating their parents and what kind of men they were going to grow up to become," he said. "We told them they were destroying each other and the calm and peace in the household. It had to stop."
The boys pledged to reform, he said, but were back at their rowdy ways the next morning.
The next evening, a second family meeting was held to announce that the top level of presents — about $700 in video games — would be sold on the computer auction site. The oldest boy, the man said, responded with a challenge to carry out the threat.
"My first thought was, 'Oh, s--t,' He's telling me to prove it. What are you going to do then?" the man said. "You can't just let the tail wag the dog. If this has a positive long-term effect, and it makes them better people, that's all that counts. I'm certainly not a vindictive, mean, evil beastie of a person."
The boys' mother noted the children increasingly have been disrespectful to her, their father and each other.
"We're on a very limited income," she said, "and we scrimped and we saved. You have no idea how hard it was to get these games for the boys, but I did and I was treated like crap. ... It really crushes me, but we felt like we had to take a stand.
"I kind of prayed that they (the toys) didn't sell on eBay."
The couple would not allow their children to be interviewed.
Lane Coco, a social worker at Depelchin Children's Center, suggested the embattled parents may have stumbled into an "ultimatum situation" in which everyone loses.
"It sounds like the kids were bored with school being out," she said. "Sometimes parents let things go by the wayside, they're lax, then they really come down with something very harsh. It's really not fair to to the children or to them. They usually feel pretty lousy about what they've had to do."
Coco praised the family for its joint meetings and suggested another one in which the parents could assure the kids of their love.
'I'm crying on the inside'
"Maybe he could salvage the presents, take them off eBay," she said. "Get the kids to work with them, rather than fighting with one another. Try to form alliances with the children rather than coming off with this off-the-top-of-the-charts disciplinary thing."
The father said his wife has been in tears since the final showdown. "I don't do it outwardly," he said, "but I'm crying on the inside."
Tears or no, he said, if the kids don't settle down, he will auction off the next tier of toys — a bicycle, fish tank and karaoke machine.
Although the man contacted the Houston Chronicle, promoting the tale as a "human interest story," he adamantly refused to be identified.
"In a city of 4 million people," he asked, "do you think I want to be a Grinch?"
If it's true, good for him! I've seen 1st hand what happens when kids don't have to take responsibility for their actions. I have 2 stepkids that are just barely adults, and they are having an unneccesarily rough time dealing with the most basic issues of living on their own. To many people think it's the school system's duty to teach ethics.
Please consider this listing and transaction as cancelled. If anybody contacts you to complete the sale, please ignore the request. Completing the sale outside of eBay may be unsafe and will not be covered by eBay purchase protection programs.
MY WORDS: It was a scam.
My Dad actually got a lump on coal in his stocking as a kid. And whenever he told the story to me as a kid, it sure kept ME in line.
I always thought Christmas was a holiday invented by parents to keep their kids behaving well, esp. from October to December 24th, the season when little minds turn to Christmas.
Oh. My. Gawd. I'd buy those tickets just for a chance to email with the lady in that picture :-)
If the children had an instinct for profundity, they would be very bad...so they could be very good.
Dude's kind of a psycho.
Interesting marketing method.
And when dad gets old and is shipped off to the crooked nursing home, he'll probably wonder why.
Sad. We don't know the details, but the kids seem rather young for this treatment. Worse, he's taught them a lesson they'll never forget and who knows what they'll do to their own children because of it. Not a good idea. Sounds as if Pop should have spent more time teaching the lessons of charity, love and forgiveness. But if they burned down the house or took the family car and hit a tree, I guess I'd be mad enough to consider EBay.
My Cuban mom and dad would solve all my brother and I's "issues" with a thick leather belt. A few smacks friom that had us in line. Does anyone smak thier kids around anymore? In Walgreens yesterday I saw that they were selling "Time Out" chairs for kids!
Foul language and obscene hand gestures from kids 9, 11, and 15? Sounds like Dad forgot one present...a good, old-fashioned a**-kicking. My Dad would have kicked me through the roof if I had ever "dared" him to do something. Then he would have done it. Guess these obnoxious little brats aren't terribly familiar with the Ten Commandments.
See post #41. I love how FREEPERS LOVE TO JUDGE other people.
Hildy, you've GOT to quit judging those Freepers! After all who are you to judge them?
He got to open his presents in March.
Time to apply the BOARD OF EDUCATION to the SEAT OF HIGHER LEARNING.
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