What would be the benefit of homosexual marriage to ANY of the millions who voted in multiple states against it?
Why would conservative Christians want to allow the aggressive homosexual agenda to proceed with its plans for American society?
What, if anything, is GOOD about the aggressive homosexual agenda for changing American society?
Until you can answer those questions to the satisfaction of conservative Christians, you are not going to find a receptive audience.
Frankly, I won't hold my breath.
Your questions are posed in a hostile "when did you stop beating your wife?" fashion.
If you personally perceive no benefit to yourself does that mean you are prepared to deny human rights to another person? For example, slave owners perceived no benefit to ending slavery. Therefore, should our country have outlawed "the aggressive abolitionist agenda to proceed"? Perhaps imprison abolitionists, legally forbid them to marry or own property or publish newspapers?
Your message seems to indicate that YOU are the ultimate model for all good and decent persons, i.e. we must all behave and think like you do. "What, if anything, is GOOD about YOUR agenda" for American society?