Instead of "smart", would you settle for "wise" ?
What I'm saying is, would you pick, say, a mathematician with zero "people skills" and whose children never know a parent's love and guidance?
Or a moderately intelligent man that was able to raise his children to be good, kind, caring and responsible adults ?
I have known some very intelligent people in my lifetime that were lousy parents, and lousy human beings as well..
At the same time, I have known several people that could barely read, and never learned english very well, but worked hard to support their family, and brought their kids up to be good americans.. and went to church every sunday..
But then again, you were talking about what a "smart" woman wants, not what a "wise" woman wants...
Isn't that right??
You are right, Drammach. I meant wise, not smart.