FWIW, it is courtesy and protocol here at FR to ping the person you're talking about.
My dear (please don't sue me for slander) -- the ONLY "arguments" you have made this entire thread is thusly:
1) njwoman is a "strong, confident, successful" woman whose attributes clearly threaten men.
2) njwoman is an attractive woman ("please check out my pic for further "proof.")
3) "Conservative" njwoman is in all reality a feminist who prefers to wear the pants in her family 50.1% of the time; NOT 49.9999%.
According to my unscientific data, I'm going to assume your "pool" of eligible gentlemen who have succumbed to your "warmth" and "charm" and "class" to be limited to those men who've graduated with honors from the 'Phil Donohue Academy of the Damned'.