[najida]

Also, I have to say, if a man asks a woman out, and she's not interested -- if the man was polite in his approach she is morally obligated to turn him down politely. Yet some women -- even alleged "Christians" -- seem to think that if a man is beneath them (lower income, "nerdy", or whatever), they have the right to humiliate him just for daring to find them attractive.

I agree, even after first dates where it becomes painfully apparent that all the two of you have in common is being warmblooded mammals; a woman should be kind and gracefully decline any further dates.

BUT the guy is also obligated not to act amazed and say "But, but, you are alone! (Translation you should be grateful for any male attention) And we got along OK! Why don't you wanna go out again!!?" (I have come to realize that the male translation of "soul mate" is "A breathing non-bagger with 38 DD's")

~~sigh~~

So I usually just smile sweetly and say "I guess it's the dementia from the schizo-affective disorder kickin'in. Now where did I put my ax?"

[Lazamataz]

(I have come to realize that the male translation of "soul mate" is "A breathing non-bagger with 38 DD's")

Big breasts annoy me.

[Rytwyng]

BUT the guy is also obligated not to act amazed and say "But, but, you are alone!...And we got along OK! Why don't you wanna go out again!!?"

Actually, I HAVE asked that question. With 3 different women who broke my heart. In all 3 cases, it was well over a year when I asked them, "Please, just tell me WHY you suddenly backed off and decided you didn't want me." All three evaded the question.

(I have come to realize that the male translation of "soul mate" is "A breathing non-bagger with 38 DD's")

Not necessarily. One of my "soul mates" was only of average attractiveness. Another one wasn't physically appealing to me at all, not in the slightest, so we were never more than friends.