Like I said:
"I think on one level or another both people are needing (or missing), something and both people choose to either actively participate or not to actively resist."
-doesn't sound wrong to me...sounds like we're saying the same thing only you chose to give us all the details.
A young adolescent who has a poor family upbringing and becomes the prey of a homosexual does not "choose" to (as you put it) "either actively participate or not to actively resist". A MINOR adolescent is not expected to, nor should be expected to, be able to protect themselves from the predators of the world. Parents, teachers, and society are supposed to do the protecting, not the predating.
We are not saying the same thing.
What part of "preying on weakness" do you not understand?