Two things came immediately to mind as I read this well thought out piece. The killers who strap bombs to themselves are not suicide bombers. They are homicide bombers. Suicide is an individual, some would say selfish act. Homicide, while selfish in the least, involves the death of unsuspecting innocents. 9/11 was not a "tragedy" as is often voiced by those commenting on it, it was an attack on the US.
Yep. "Suicide Bomber" is just plain wrong. They should allow the families of the victims to sue the bomber's family (or supporting organization, or mosque, or imam, or Palestine itself) for damages.