Please get her proffesional help and be strong supportive parents. (which it already seems that you are.) A message board is the wrong place to get the help that you probably seek right now.
CERTAINLY PROFESSIONAL HELP IS CRUCIAL.
However, a message board is also a good supplement. There's a wealth of experience on FR and even the diversity of inputs from many creative therapists can be good. Even as a professional and even if I were also seeing another professional--I'd also seek input from FREEPERS. They're the best on about any topic or problem.
30 - "A message board is the wrong place to get the help that you probably seek right now."
How did you manage to stay on this 'message board' for 4 years?
You certainly don't seem to have learned very much about FR.