[JennysCool]

You can't take a twenty year old out of college against her will.

I didn't say against her will, dead. I suspect if the situation is this dire, she can be convinced some time at home wouldn't hurt.

[dead]

I hope they can convince her, I was just pointing out that she might say no.

[BJungNan]

I didn't say against her will, dead. I suspect if the situation is this dire, she can be convinced some time at home wouldn't hurt.

I suspect she would also, unless it is from drug use. Then the reaction might be the opposite. If she won't stay at home for bit, whatever the reason - then one parent should move up there with the daughter. Either way, the point is to be close.