[ClancyJ]

Did you chose to date girls in high school instead of boys?

Did you only chose girls because that was what was expected OR BECAUSE YOU HAD NO CHOICE - YOU JUST HAD TO HAVE A DATE WITH THAT CUTE GIRL IN THE NEXT AISLE?

I suggest people remember their own teenage years and when they made their choice.

Frankly - it never came up with me - it was just natural because of the many crushes I was surrounded with in my teenage years. (Note-I am female).

[BikerNYC]

Yes, I chose to date girls in high school.

What's the alternative? That our entire emotional life is nothing but a reflection of the particular combination of genes we were born with and the environmental trappings of a period of our lives over which we had no control and do not remember?

Do we choose who to fall in love with?