"I don't know about that. I have some neighbors down the road a ways that could use a good thrashing. They are old and ornery and can't get along with a fence-post."
Well, that doesn't mean you're going to enslave them, surely.
My limited understanding of that issue is that you're not required to feel the emotion of love for your neighbor, just to act like you do.
http://www.democraticunderground.com/discuss/duboard.php?az=view_all&address=104x2820162
There's on this.