Motherbear; gridlock; Sun Soldier
"Actually, that's not what Gridlock said."
Thats what I thought he said, but Sun Soldier also has a reasonable take:
I think what gridlock meant was that sex makes a strong bond with your first partner. That breakup with your first sexual partner is most painful and difficult (assuming there was a relationship to break from). Then, with each successive partner, the bond is less strong and the breakup less painful (easier).
I guess we do need gridlock to clarify.
Yes, gridlock, please explain the duct tape theory. We're all confused now......:)