"I have finally discovered that my kharma is such that I attract only those that are the second coming of Ted Bundy "
I have a friend who was the same way for many years. Once she finally found out what was causing it, she did find a guy who treats her well and they got married several years ago.
At this point in my life, I will be 99 before I totally get a grip on the cause (it is a multi-layered problem). So, for the sake of my family, friends, job and pets....I just don't put myself in harms way ;)