"Nothin' more maddening for a RL woman to find herself with a 'porn raised' male mind. They are miffed with you from the get go and you wanna slap them silly for being so gullible. ACK!"
Good grief! Stop dating (or marrying, whatever) such losers. Get a better self-image so that you don't develop relationships with such selfish men. You can do better.
he he he,
Darlin'....
You don't know HOW right you are! I have finally discovered that my kharma is such that I attract only those that are the second coming of Ted Bundy (even when I think they aren't!). It's to the point the FBI asks me to go hang out at Barnes and Noble when they have a man-hunt for a wackaloon going on..... Sure enough, within the hour, they can find him. Sitting next to me :)
~sigh~ Which is why I intend to stay single old widder women in the swamp with too many cats.