If you represent 'modernman', with so little regard for the well being of our society---coming down on the side of something so vile in it's insult to humanity in general and women in particular--we are in terrible, dire straits.
I come down in favor of consenting adults being able to engage in any activity they desire, so long as their actions do not harm the person or property of another.
You seem to be coming from the Hillary Clinton "It Takes A Village" school of thought.