snip....Following your rationale, me looking at my wife while she's naked should be a crime
If you cannot see the difference between seeing your wife in the nude and 'peeping' at the nude bodies and sex acts of other people, then you've got an overabundnce of mental fog.
But then it would make sense that you do have this problem, since in order for one to succumb to the dark foul lure of porn and become its defender, one needs first to have one's brain become a an empty, clanging place devoid of moral standards. And therein lies your problem and the reason why you're wandering aimlessly to and fro in the wilderness......a lack of unchanging moral standards.
You're the one who cannot see the difference between peeping on your neighbors without their consent and watching them perform sex acts with their consent.
I'm just taking yout logic to its natural conclusion: if looking at other people performing sex acts with their consent is the same as being a peeping tom, then me looking at my wife while she is naked makes me a peeping tom.