The larger problem here is the emasculation of the military. It is a process that has been going on for many years. The academies are insecure about there role in society (I say this as a West Point graduate) and in order to maintain favor with politicians who control the purse strings, they are always at the forfront of their respective services in integrating women into their organization.
The men see the double standard and are disgusted by it. Political correctness has run amok and soldiers, sailors and airmen who were once very loyal to their services and to the nation are tired of putting up with the bs.
Remember how Elaine Donnelly of the center of military readiness exposed the double standards designed to create women fighter pilots in the Navy? She was litigated ad naseaum by the feminist military lobby. One man, in uniform, could never stand up against the imposers of "women in the military," he would be toast the minute he raised his head.
Now all the guys just go along to get along. But there exists a lot of resentment.
please look at my post, number 51