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The New Red-Diaper Babies
New York Times ^ | December 7, 2004 | David Brooks

Posted on 12/07/2004 3:51:25 PM PST by RWR8189

There is a little-known movement sweeping across the United States. The movement is "natalism."

All across the industrialized world, birthrates are falling - in Western Europe, in Canada and in many regions of the United States. People are marrying later and having fewer kids. But spread around this country, and concentrated in certain areas, the natalists defy these trends.

They are having three, four or more kids. Their personal identity is defined by parenthood. They are more spiritually, emotionally and physically invested in their homes than in any other sphere of life, having concluded that parenthood is the most enriching and elevating thing they can do. Very often they have sacrificed pleasures like sophisticated movies, restaurant dining and foreign travel, let alone competitive careers and disposable income, for the sake of their parental calling.

In a world that often makes it hard to raise large families, many are willing to move to find places that are congenial to natalist values. The fastest-growing regions of the country tend to have the highest concentrations of children. Young families move away from what they perceive as disorder, vulgarity and danger and move to places like Douglas County in Colorado (which is the fastest-growing county in the country and has one of the highest concentrations of kids). Some people see these exurbs as sprawling, materialistic wastelands, but many natalists see them as clean, orderly and affordable places where they can nurture children.

If you wanted a one-sentence explanation for the explosive growth of far-flung suburbs, it would be that when people get money, one of the first things they do is use it to try to protect their children from bad influences.

So there are significant fertility inequalities across regions. People on the Great Plains and in the Southwest are much more fertile than people in New England or on the Pacific coast.

You can see surprising political correlations. As Steve Sailer pointed out in The American Conservative, George Bush carried the 19 states with the highest white fertility rates, and 25 of the top 26. John Kerry won the 16 states with the lowest rates.

In The New Republic Online, Joel Kotkin and William Frey observe, "Democrats swept the largely childless cities - true blue locales like San Francisco, Portland, Seattle, Boston and Manhattan have the lowest percentages of children in the nation - but generally had poor showings in those places where families are settling down, notably the Sun Belt cities, exurbs and outer suburbs of older metropolitan areas."

Politicians will try to pander to this group. They should know this is a spiritual movement, not a political one. The people who are having big families are explicitly rejecting materialistic incentives and hyperindividualism. It costs a middle-class family upward of $200,000 to raise a child. These people are saying money and ambition will not be their gods.

Natalists resist the declining fertility trends not because of income, education or other socioeconomic characteristics. It's attitudes. People with larger families tend to attend religious services more often, and tend to have more traditional gender roles.

I draw attention to natalists because they're an important feature of our national life. Because of them, the U.S. stands out in all sorts of demographic and cultural categories. But I do it also because when we talk about the divide on values in this country, caricatured in the red and blue maps, it's important that we understand the true motive forces behind it.

Natalists are associated with red America, but they're not launching a jihad. The differences between them and people on the other side of the cultural or political divide are differences of degree, not kind. Like most Americans, but perhaps more anxiously, they try to shepherd their kids through supermarket checkouts lined with screaming Cosmo or Maxim cover lines. Like most Americans, but maybe more so, they suspect that we won't solve our social problems or see improvements in our schools as long as many kids are growing up in barely functioning families.

Like most Americans, and maybe more so because they tend to marry earlier, they find themselves confronting the consequences of divorce. Like most Americans, they wonder how we can be tolerant of diverse lifestyles while still preserving the family institutions that are under threat.

What they cherish, like most Americans, is the self-sacrificial love shown by parents. People who have enough kids for a basketball team are too busy to fight a culture war.

 

E-mail: dabrooks@nytimes.com


TOPICS: Constitution/Conservatism; Culture/Society; Editorial; News/Current Events; Politics/Elections
KEYWORDS: birthrate; brooks; bushcountry; davidbrooks; exburbs; natalism; natalists; stevesailer; sunbelt
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To: P-Chan Penny

We adopted two boys. I love them deeply.


61 posted on 12/07/2004 6:49:46 PM PST by gitmo (Thanks, Mel. I needed that.)
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To: Politicalmom

Beautiful. I love pictures of Freeperbabies.


62 posted on 12/07/2004 7:05:44 PM PST by little jeremiah (What would happen if everyone decided their own "right and wrong"?)
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To: RWR8189

"Natalists"

Better than "breeders", I suppose.

Speaking as the father of five. ;^)


63 posted on 12/07/2004 7:12:13 PM PST by headsonpikes (Another five-fingered Canadian... ;^))
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To: ReadyNow

The future belongs to the breeders! (I've got three, and another due in February...)


64 posted on 12/07/2004 7:15:47 PM PST by Oberon (What does it take to make government shrink?)
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To: Blood of Tyrants

"I'll bet Kerry won the states with the highest abortion rates." Interesting ... it would explain the bloody clingingness of the democrap party to the defense of the indefensible serial killing of alive womb-bound children. Democraps must pander to those worshipping the rite of child slaughter thus they are the priests(priestesses) of the Molech tradition. Not much has improved in 3000 years, in some features of the human species.


65 posted on 12/07/2004 7:23:31 PM PST by MHGinTN (If you can read this, you've had life support from someone. Promote life support for others.)
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To: steplock
[ What is the word for the exact opposite of MORALS? ]

Turpitude... (depravity)

66 posted on 12/07/2004 7:41:10 PM PST by hosepipe (This Propaganda has been edited to include not a small amount of Hyperbole..)
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To: Polybius
I wish we could go back to when the Left-wingers were the "Reds".

Red is a great color. Besides, we are taking everything else back, so why not red?
67 posted on 12/07/2004 8:28:05 PM PST by horse_doc
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To: horse_doc

Blue is the color of depression. They have reason to be depressed.

Heeheehee : )


68 posted on 12/07/2004 8:33:56 PM PST by Politicalmom ( Since Bush was selected in 2000, shouldn't he be able to run again in 2008?)
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To: redhead
As a rule, by the time the last one arrives, the oldest one is big enough to help out a little.

Already true, and I only have two so far. The 3yo helps the 1yo and they entertain each other as well. When I tell people two is easier than one they think I'm nuts.

69 posted on 12/07/2004 8:37:02 PM PST by practicalmom (Adopt a soldier at http://www.operationac.com)
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To: Eepsy

Well, that is my experience. If I hadn't had my second so quickly, my son might have scared me off. : )

I would have missed out on my three girls, though, so God knew what he was doing, as always.


70 posted on 12/07/2004 8:41:30 PM PST by Politicalmom ( Since Bush was selected in 2000, shouldn't he be able to run again in 2008?)
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To: horse_doc
I wish we could go back to when the Left-wingers were the "Reds".........Polybius

Red is a great color. Besides, we are taking everything else back, so why not red?......horse_doc

Well, O.K.

But "taking back" has its limits. I don't think we'll live to see the day that we tell someone that we went out with the guys last night and, like Barney Rubble and Fred Flinstone, had a "gay ole time". ;-)

71 posted on 12/07/2004 8:43:52 PM PST by Polybius
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To: everyone

We raise the kids. The liberals then have the much easier, cheaper, and more pleasant work of brainwashing them.

Good deal?

"The left doesn't need children. They have students."


73 posted on 12/07/2004 9:23:24 PM PST by California Patriot
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To: ReadyNow
A new word from the left:

New group: Childfree DU'ers? (Beware, anti-"Breeder" rants)

74 posted on 12/07/2004 11:27:14 PM PST by weegee (WE FOUGHT ZOGBYISM November 2, 2004 - 60 Million Voters versus 60 Minutes - BUSH WINS!!!)
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To: ReadyNow
Blue county schools are among the worst in the non-Muslim world.

Right, so those of us who fit this definition fairly well and live in them, homeschool.

75 posted on 12/07/2004 11:51:19 PM PST by MarMema
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To: P-Chan Penny
but infertility changed my plans.

Us too, so we adopted three from Russia.

76 posted on 12/07/2004 11:52:21 PM PST by MarMema
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To: gitmo

And you have a beautiful bulldog, too. Congrats!


77 posted on 12/08/2004 12:51:48 AM PST by LibertarianInExile (NO BLOOD FOR CHOCOLATE! Get the UN-ignoring, unilateralist Frogs out of Ivory Coast!)
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To: Polybius
I wish we could go back to when the Left-wingers were the "Reds".

YOU'RE LIVING IT RIGHT NOW!!! AMERICAN EDUCATION, THE COURTS AND CONGRESS ARE ALL CONTROLLED BY "....THE REDS!!! WE NEED ANOTHER UN-AMERICAN ACTIVITIES COMMITTEE IN CONGRESS, BUT THERE ISN'T A SINGLE MEMBER OF THAT BRANCH THAT HAS THE BALLS TO DO WHAT NEEDS TO BE DONE!!!

78 posted on 12/08/2004 1:42:06 AM PST by Robert Drobot (God, family, country. All else is meaningless.)
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To: angcat

What a cutie ... great hat!


79 posted on 12/08/2004 4:39:35 AM PST by Tax-chick (Benedicere cor tuo! Quomodo cogis comas tuas sic videri?)
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To: Politicalmom

Adorable!


80 posted on 12/08/2004 5:12:25 AM PST by angcat
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