Amen.
I get so bent out of shape with people who say "I don't go to church. I can't find one I like. I don't like the hypocrites. I don't like the boring music. I don't like the rock music".
I always say to them "It's not about YOU. It's not about how the church serves you. It's about how YOU serve the church".
Needless to say, I am up to my eyeballs in free dumb looks.