That blame number sounds like the liberal mantra. No one wants to accept responsibility for one's self. Some that preach accepting responsibility are the first ones to blame others for behavior or whatever else they don't agree with on someone else.
It's just another result of years of liberalism creeping into the churches. Sad.
When I was a teenager, myself and a few other kids from our Baptist Youth Fellowship group got together and wrote some pretty rocking tunes with a christian message, and we were well-received by our stick-in-the-mud reverend, who allowed us to perform one sunday after services - and most of the congregation stayed. Most thought it was great to see kids using whatever talents God gave them to glorify Him.