I'm the same way. If the pastor has no more sense than to let his church be turned into a "pad" for rock wannabees, he probably isn't worth listening to.
My favorite Bible teacher is J. Vernon McGee of "Thru the Bible." He used to be a powerful pastor-teacher at the Church of the Open Door in downtown Los Angeles. I remember him saying in one of his sermons --about this vainglorious music-- that his message could easily be destroyed before he ever spoke a word because of such. Well, McGee has long ago passed away.
I recently drove twenty miles to visit his former church, moved from the city to a quiet, peaceful suburb. As I got out of the car, some hundred yards away from the door, I could hear amplified, cacophonous rock music blasting out from the sanctuary. I had to shake my head and wonder. Poor McGee would be rolling over in his grave. Needless to say, I immediately got back in the car and drove the twenty miles home.
Dr. McGee was truly one of the greatest men I've heard. His broadcasts are here on the radio every morning followed by Dr. Charles Stanley.
You might not want to listen to a pastor who welcomes rock musicians into his church, but I'll betcha you won't find a lot of kids who would get excited listening to J. Vernon McGee. That's not a reflection on him, but again, you might take into consideration that not everyone is like you. Far from it.