When you're a young man, unless you are exceptional, that's what you're looking for. Cheap desperate women who want to get into bed with you but not marry you. Here's hoping there are still some exceptional ones left, then.
That's a pretty sad generalization, if I can use the "g" word yet again. It's been tossed around an awful lot here. Getting used up...
It is sad, but generally, ooohh there's that word again, true. Hormones play into it a lot. Then there's western society as a whole that says, "You're not a MAN until you're not a virgin."
Many things go into making a young man think that way.
There are exceptional young men still out there but it's hard to recognize them because they tend to camouflage it.