Yet that is your fantasy.
By being a 'nice guy', a man cannot satisfy that elusive 'fantasy' part and a woman will discard him.
Now get William Wallace a nice ale out of the 'fridge, won't you?
Oh no darlin'! I am past the diaper age and like I said, I don't wanna get married. The septic line is optional.
I just wanna use him for sex and discard him when he gets clingy and boring. :)