About me? Not a thing, I'm just another poster.
If American women don't understand what there is about American men to be grateful for, they should consider all of the options they have in their lives that most husbands happily support, that were unheard of in previous generations. Ask your mothers, aunts, grandmas, and any other older woman about what it was like.
Are there bums among us? Sure. Are even the best American men works in progress? Sure.
But if you have to ask repeatedly why you should be grateful for something, or even what that something is, then it's going to be hard for you to argue that you aren't ungrateful for it.
You misunderstand.... We are asking very specifically about you, because you are the one telling us that we are, as a class, inappreciative of you and ungrateful. I want to know what you brought with you to the table, besides some idea that women have it pretty good in this country. That isn't yours to give.
I appreciate and am grateful for my husband. But I don't overgeneralize, that would diminish him. He isn't the one on here berating American women, you are.