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What Japanese Women Want: A Western Husband
The Christian Science Monitor ^ | December 6, 2004 | Bennett Richardson

Posted on 12/06/2004 9:12:18 AM PST by MississippiMasterpiece

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To: najida
I just wanna use him for sex and discard him when he gets clingy and boring. :)

Excellent. Now that is completely fair.

The opposite of clingy and boring is mean and exciting.

441 posted on 12/06/2004 12:33:36 PM PST by Cogadh na Sith (--Scots Gaelic: 'War or Peace'--)
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To: najida

Excellent come back.


442 posted on 12/06/2004 12:33:39 PM PST by processing please hold (Islam and Christianity do not mix ----9-11 taught us that)
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To: HairOfTheDog
I don't mean to sound ungrateful, but I am really getting bored by you.

I could tell from all of your posts to me. LOL

Quit personalizing generalizations, you'll generally live longer.

443 posted on 12/06/2004 12:33:40 PM PST by Fatalis
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To: pbrown
That sounds like me, except I would add quiet a few others as well, like I said before, opinionated, head-strong, stubborn, etc, etc, etc.

LOL! Yep, I'm afraid I'd have to add those, too; some days more than others.

444 posted on 12/06/2004 12:33:52 PM PST by RosieCotton (He is a very shallow critic who cannot see an eternal rebel in the heart of a conservative. - GKC)
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To: RosieCotton
And I show up...dunno why. Guess it's the train wreck factor.

For me, at least today, it's a good way to avoid work!

445 posted on 12/06/2004 12:35:31 PM PST by Glenmerle
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To: Glenmerle
For me, at least today, it's a good way to avoid work!

Well yeah, there's that, too...

446 posted on 12/06/2004 12:36:02 PM PST by RosieCotton (He is a very shallow critic who cannot see an eternal rebel in the heart of a conservative. - GKC)
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To: Cogadh na Sith

Perhaps you are right. Maybe what all relationships need is more abuse and disrespect. Maybe all those happy people don't know what they are missing!


447 posted on 12/06/2004 12:36:59 PM PST by HairOfTheDog
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To: najida; All
There are two basically two kinds of men on the marriage market:
Orgasm donors and husbands.

Many women fall for the former because of the Bad Boy Syndrome and the excitement of being a part of it, but there's a lot more to making a marriage than a good roll in the hay.

448 posted on 12/06/2004 12:37:15 PM PST by TexasCowboy (Texan by birth, citizen of Jesusland by the Grace of God)
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To: Sam Cree
I personally don't know any women who wish this in a serious way, and wouldn't respect one who did, nor the guy who obliged her

Please.... Drop the PC disclaimer--you won't impress any women with that.

It works. Ayn Rand liked to be dominated.

449 posted on 12/06/2004 12:37:36 PM PST by Cogadh na Sith (--Scots Gaelic: 'War or Peace'--)
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To: dmz

Why's that?


450 posted on 12/06/2004 12:38:00 PM PST by processing please hold (Islam and Christianity do not mix ----9-11 taught us that)
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To: Sam Cree
It's true that there are plenty of ladies who like shooting and fishing, it's just that they are less likely than guys to be interested. Or become fanatics.

What are ya sayin' Sam? ;~D

451 posted on 12/06/2004 12:38:56 PM PST by HairOfTheDog
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To: Mr. Jeeves
If he knows how to get past her barriers and speak to the woman inside, a man can transform even the bitterest shrew into a loyal, loving companion

But why waste time on a reclamation project in the first place. If one intends to expend that much energy, you're better off starting with someone who carries less baggage.

452 posted on 12/06/2004 12:38:57 PM PST by Freebird Forever
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To: Cogadh na Sith
I'm not going to do something for you in hopes you'll like me,

OK, means you have a strong sense of self-worth.

you'll do something for me in hopes of gaining some rare approval.

Moi? Don't think so... at one time maybe (before psychoanalysis, hypnosis, regression therapy and a case of Tequila), but today...I'd jez leave ya in the septic tank.

I've found that the less kindness and approval I give, the more a woman will do to earn it and the happier everyone is.

Ahhhh grasshopper, this is what this old geezerette has learned.... Some women as little girls have no father, or a father that treats them very, very badly, or just ignores them. So those little girls grow up not knowing how men are supposed to treat them, thinking that love is abuse and visa versa. Then one day, along comes you...and they think "GEE, he's just like Dad! So he must love me!"

Either they spend their whole lives in this sad cycle, or one day WALLLAH! They wake up and say "This isn't right", kick ya to the curb, burn all yer stuff in the bass boat and subscribe you to a lifetime of gay porn mags.
But, ~sigh~Sadly, often they don't.

Dig your own septic line, I'll be playing golf. :)

Whatever, I can do it myself, just wanted to see ya get dirty. ;)

453 posted on 12/06/2004 12:39:14 PM PST by najida (Aunt to Miss Emily Ann- Cutest Baby in the World.)
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To: HairOfTheDog
His point is to act like the stud who can get the cheap desperate women into bed.

I think his point is that many women, not a majority or even a large minority, who are on the hunt, not necessarily for marriage, respond to that type of attitude.

When you're a young man, unless you are exceptional, that's what you're looking for. Cheap desperate women who want to get into bed with you but not marry you.

454 posted on 12/06/2004 12:40:18 PM PST by Just another Joe (Warning: FReeping can be addictive and helpful to your mental health)
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To: HairOfTheDog
Maybe all those happy people don't know what they are missing!

Apparently all those happy people aren't all that happy, are they?

The only 'happy' married people I know are the 20+ year ones--before all the 'sharing and equal' horsecrap.

If women wanted an 'equal partner', they would marry another dopey woman. They want a superior partner....

455 posted on 12/06/2004 12:41:15 PM PST by Cogadh na Sith (--Scots Gaelic: 'War or Peace'--)
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To: RosieCotton

I can't count the times when I would be dreaming about him in Braveheart, just to have my hubby shake me and ask, 'What are you doing'?


456 posted on 12/06/2004 12:41:39 PM PST by processing please hold (Islam and Christianity do not mix ----9-11 taught us that)
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To: Just another Joe
When you're a young man, unless you are exceptional, that's what you're looking for. Cheap desperate women who want to get into bed with you but not marry you.

Here's hoping there are still some exceptional ones left, then.

That's a pretty sad generalization, if I can use the "g" word yet again. It's been tossed around an awful lot here. Getting used up...

457 posted on 12/06/2004 12:41:59 PM PST by RosieCotton (He is a very shallow critic who cannot see an eternal rebel in the heart of a conservative. - GKC)
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To: Cogadh na Sith
The opposite of clingy and boring is mean and exciting.

Not to pick nits (but you wear them so well!) But I think the opposite of clingy and boring is independent and exciting.

The opposite of mean is nice.

458 posted on 12/06/2004 12:43:59 PM PST by najida (Aunt to Miss Emily Ann- Cutest Baby in the World.)
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To: marajade
I think its more about how a person thinks about life and their character.

Well that could take all day to write out.

459 posted on 12/06/2004 12:45:08 PM PST by Centurion2000 (Truth, Justice and the Texan Way)
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To: najida
and subscribe you to a lifetime of gay porn mags.

ROTFLMAOPINP!

I gotta remember that one.

460 posted on 12/06/2004 12:45:24 PM PST by Just another Joe (Warning: FReeping can be addictive and helpful to your mental health)
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