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Girl, 14, abandoned by mother who ran off with her lover
The Times (UK) ^ | 12/01/04 | Russell Jenkins

Posted on 11/30/2004 5:25:06 PM PST by saquin

WHEN Chloe Riley, 14, arrived home from school to find her mother had walked out and left her to fend for herself, she set out to do just that. For a fortnight she carried on as normal, keeping up her schoolwork and telling no one that her mother, Stephanie, an IT teacher, had disappeared.

But when she returned home to find the locks changed, she had to accept that she had been abandoned. Her mother had cancelled the tenancy on the council house they had shared in the Wirral and moved in with her lover. For two months the girl had no contact with her mother, except a text message. She is now being cared for by a half sister, Lisa McLoughlin.

Merseyside Police and social workers from Wirral Council are investigating. A police spokesman said: “We received a report from Wirral social services that Chloe was abandoned by Stephanie. Officers from the family support unit have been holding joint strategic meetings with social workers. We want to talk to Mrs Riley and would appeal to anybody who knows her whereabouts — even Mrs Riley herself — to contact the family support unit.”

Chloe’s father, Robbie Riley, a well-known boxer on Merseyside, died in December, 2002, after a long illness. Friends and well-wishers raised thousands of pounds to meet the family’s expenses, pay for a headstone and Chloe’s travel costs from her home in Birkenhead to St Mary’s College, in Wallasey.

Relatives described how Mrs Riley, 39, changed after the death of her husband. She remodelled herself, with a new hair colour and slimmer figure, and is now said to be living with her 29-year-old lover in Haydock.

Social services staff said that Mrs Riley disappeared in early October. Chloe continued travelling to St Mary’s College, kept up with her homework and housework, but told no one, all the time hoping that her mother would return. When council workmen changed the locks, thinking the house was empty, Chloe tried to telephone her mother but the number had been changed.

Chloe was finally forced to accept her predicament and seek refuge with her half sister. Ms McLoughlin, 29, a care home worker, took her in with the few clothes and possessions she could salvage.

“Chloe has been distraught,” Ms McLoughlin said. “She thought her mum would come back and she didn’t want to bother me.

“Chloe had lost a lot of weight but she is with me now. She is happier and eating well, and doing her homework every night. I suppose that is all that matters. But I am not her mother and it must hurt.

“Every night I hear her crying for mum and dad. What child deserves that?” Ms McLoughlin said: “Chloe lost our dad. Then her mother ran off, and now we both feel abandoned by social services. I am a single parent with two kids under seven. I work three days a week because that is all the childcare I can afford.

“We only have each other and I would do anything for Chloe, but it is a struggle because I have got nothing to give her, except love.”


TOPICS: Crime/Corruption; Extended News; News/Current Events; United Kingdom
KEYWORDS: abandonment; absentmothers; chloeriley; sisters; whenselfishnesswins
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To: Captain Peter Blood
Follow up with pictures of the daughter and her dirtball mother here:

Apparently the "boyfriend" is a college lecturer! They both ought to be tarred and feathered. The poor misguided daughter is so nice of a person she has made a public statement on her mother's behalf. She is far too good for them:


81 posted on 12/25/2004 4:27:36 PM PST by Ronaldus Magnus
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To: B4Ranch
Someone has probably already pointed it out, but I believe that society has changed in such a way that a 14 year old is no longer able to fend for him/herself. Because of child labor laws in most developed nations, this 14-year old girl would not, in all likelihood, be able to find legal employment. What is left for the lass? Drug running? Prostitution? Suppose she does find an employer who is willing to pay her under the table. Do you thinks she will actually see a paycheck? Friday rolls around, she goes to her boss's office to pick up her packet, he refuses to pay her. What's her recourse? Or maybe he'd try a little "Sure, I got your money...right here in my pocket, wink wink."

I do not know about other countries but those are, sadly, likely scenarios for indigent 14-year olds here.

82 posted on 12/25/2004 5:39:53 PM PST by grellis ("I went to a Basketball game and a Music Awards Ceremony broke out"--discipler)
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To: saquin

When I was growing up in Queens, my sisters went off to scout camp when we were in the process of preparing to move to another house about six blocks away. The owners moved early and we moved in unexpectedly while they were at camp. The bus from camp left them a the Port Authority Bus Terminal in Manhattan, whence they took a taxi "home". When they arrived, our next door neighbor greeted them by saying "They moved!"


You can image the reaction of the taxi driver. (This was 1963.) Of course my sisters knew where the new house was, so they directed him there.


83 posted on 12/25/2004 5:48:27 PM PST by Lonesome in Massachussets (NYT Headline: "The Protocols of the Learned Elders of CBS", Fake But Accurate, Experts Say)
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To: Happygal
She lost her dad, and was completely abandoned by her mother.

Judging my Mum's behavior, she may be better off without her. I agree, this poor girl needs our prayers.

84 posted on 12/25/2004 5:50:46 PM PST by Lonesome in Massachussets (NYT Headline: "The Protocols of the Learned Elders of CBS", Fake But Accurate, Experts Say)
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To: MeekOneGOP; Thinkin' Gal; bad company

IIRC, the unofficial record is about 11 sec.


85 posted on 12/26/2004 12:50:10 AM PST by SirLurkedalot (Merry Christmas and Happy Hannukah!!!)
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To: Thinkin' Gal

Oy, I missed a lot of trolls yesterday.

That's what I get for taking Christmas off! (slap)


86 posted on 12/26/2004 4:27:29 AM PST by hellinahandcart
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